You know The List – the list of five people you’re allowed to sleep with without your significant other getting upset. A “freebie,” if you will.
I remember sitting around at work once, talking with some friends about The List, and one of my co-workers said she didn’t have a list. “There’s no one I would cheat on my husband with.”
“But, it’s just kind of a hypothetical, you know? And besides, he can’t get mad at you for it.”
She just shook her head and gave the rest of us a kind of blank look.
Now, I completely understand where she’s coming from. I don’t have a list anymore. I don’t even know that I ever had a fully formed list (although I do remember Ed Harris was on it). It could be I don’t have a list because I don’t know any of the young, hot actors anymore.
But I think the real reason I don’t have a List is that I don’t need one. I would never cheat on my husband, even if it were an agreed upon “freebie.”
What about you – do you have a list, and if so, who’s on it?
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