I think I’m a pretty good speller, and although my grammar isn’t always perfect, I do a pretty good job with it. I know how to use to, two, and too, as well as you’re and your and their, there, and they’re (note the Oxford comma, TYVM). But there are certain words and phrases that trip me up every time. You would think that after spelling a word wrong 200 times, I would know how to spell it, but no.
“I before E, except after C, unless sounding like A, as in ‘neighbor’ and ‘weigh.’” But, ‘weird’ is not pronounced ‘wayrd,’ so why the hell isn’t it ‘wierd’?
I refuse to ever write “Xmas” on anything. If ‘Xing’ is “crossing,” wouldn’t ‘Xmas’ be “Crossmas?”
There are specific lessons that stick with you from school. For me, one of those lessons came from Mrs. Nelson in 8th grade English: It is not ‘alot,’ it’s ‘a lot.’ To this day, seeing one word instead of two drives me batty.
Separate. Sep-ah-rut. I have to distinctly say each syllable in my head, lest I use a second E instead of an A (seperate).
Commitment – one of one letter, two of another, but which is it? Whichever way I don’t spell it. And ‘disappointment’ – 2 S’s? 2 P’s? Thank goodness for autocorrect.
I end sentences in prepositions often enough that I think that grammar rule is null and void. And “Where y’at?” doesn’t actually mean “Where are you,” at least according to Remy McSwain, so it’s totally acceptable.
(And apparently, I can’t spell ‘sentence.’ I always want to throw in an A instead of the second E. What kind of writer can’t spell that word?!)
What words do you have a hard time spelling correctly? What grammar issues do you have, which ones drive you nuts when you see other people use them?